Bookmark This Page. When you must spank, take your child to her room, your room, or the bathroom. Where is not as important as long as you are guaranteed privacy. Your child should not be embarrassed by having others see her spanked.
One makes you want to sprint away like an Olympic contender and call social services. Think of some other bedroom antics that create pain: pulling hair, running nails down the back, biting, etc. And not just physical pain but emotional and social discomfort as well - all for the purpose of re-balancing our bodies and trying to make us feel good again. One of the key players is dopamine , which is present in the body during pain AND pleasure. Many agree this might be one of the reasons we can combine pain and pleasure in a single situation.
There are many steps required for an effective spanking took take place in the home environment. For many decades these steps have assured a well spanked bottom and a proper lesson being learned. Her mom lectures her and tells her exactly why she is about to be spanked. The Lecture The 1st step in any proper spanking is the lecture.